Of Dating Patterns in the Age of Tinder

I open this orange flame application. I start swiping to the right, and left; and at times, I pause then I continue to swipe to the right, and left. I base my decision on what I see, primarily. I secondarily read through the profile, which often has random self-attestations, which don’t show so much in…

Adulting: A Natural Process and Discourse

More than just a given and apparent transition of human beings, adulting is a journey. It is not learned. It is experienced. We see several workshops these days on how to work around becoming an adult, but the reality is that it is better appreciated when tracked, encountered, and realized. Adulting is a process. It…

Relative Thinking Design

As a behavioral trainer, I am still boggled by the relativity of thoughts and perspectives. I often find myself consumed in thinking of different seemingly valid thoughts throughout the conversation. The challenge comes in the moment these thoughts and perspectives become illusory to be right all the time. As the retort goes, “don’t ever let…

#AcapellaMaker

I have recently discovered a way to practice my harmonizing skill, if there still is. Well, I have always been fond of singing back-up and harmony. It just gives me the opportunity to be creative and skillful when singing. Melodies are the core of singing, but second voices and harmonies create the story. Acapella Maker…

Film Making “Aha” Moments

They say that everyone has his or her own sense of creativity. It may be a hobby or any thing that involves utility. Mine was more of making a legacy out of what I love to do more than just a hobby or utility. Ever since I was kid, I have always been fond of…

3 Types of Conversation in Events Hosting

Event after event, events hosts come to life not simply to entertain but to maneuver the actual the flow of the program. I have been hosting occasional events since I was 20, and it has been a great experience to me. It is not about the script, but the audience, that’s what I thought. The…

Long Walks

I was once told that relationships last because of long walks – walks in the park, walks at a mall, walks in the beach. The science behind it hasn’t been proven true, but the idea is simply that walking improves creative inspiration among people, and the cognitive ability is enhanced in the process. What does…